Some of us say….don’t spoil life in the Love, while some of us says….don’t forget to love in the life.
Some of us say….love is like a perfume spread it, while some of us say….love is like sunshine so warm… So preserve it.
Some says its 143-which ultimately stands for love & some says that there are no such crazy no’s that can stand for it.
Some says love is a like dream while some says it is almost like an ice-cream.
And ultimately some of us says love is like a master key that opens the gate of happiness, but at the same time some of us also believe that love is like a war, easy to begin but hard to withdraw.
But the one think remains forever that each & every one of us must pass through this amazing stage of life (in some way or other…). Now you might be thinking that what exactly all this love Funda’s/mantra’s/ quotes have to do with this ultimate change theme or this blog?
……Yeah that’s the million dollar question…….Now as I had already mentioned (through the previous posts also) that an ultimate change is needed in all the sections, yes whether it is a part of your brain or your heart, whether it is a part of your professional life or personal life. So let’s move ahead & find out that how we can bring together a change on this side…
Now I start up all this by throwing in the front of you a common situation (which everyone of you must have faced….)Think of it what it can be..?..(Any guesses?).Yeah just imagine that you get a true friend & you get totally mixed up with him or her to such an extent that you just forget everything else (except him or her….in simple words you even don’t know that whether it’s day or night as you keep on thinking about him or her all the time…) & soon you find Urself in the battle of the love (but you still don’t know how & when you entered into this battle?).But this is just a beginning because the real picture or the real battle comes into action, when after undergoing through a lot of training almost like a soldier you build up a confidence in your self & finally speak up or tell him or her those fantastic words of love”……. … …. “(Hope you know that what they are…exactly).
And now just think what if soon in the response he/she simply laughs at you (you might be thinking that its just the way in which she/he presenting that she/he too loves you…) But who know if the very next moment she or he says “have you got nuts?” And what if he/she says “I’m not a friend of yours anymore, so from now onwards please not only try to avoid me but even don’t dare to message me?” And what if she/he says “I’m not yet a patient of this disease…& if ever I fall in it also than I’m sure that it won’t be due to you“? Just think……I give you some time…………………………………………… (Bas bas……..no more time…….as picture abhi bahut baki hai……so I can’t give you any more time).
So what’s next…won’t you find yourself in a total hell sort of situation…? Than some of you may tear up your clothes or broke up your head or hands (& if it is too much for you…than may be you broke up something else…) But once again one thing will remain same among us (on average..Hi consider kar lo)…Yeah we will find ourselves totally breaked up into the pieces & then you too will ask a similar question on yourside that why I really fallen into the love? (if its climax has to be like this) or why I really uttered those sweet words of love as just due to all that I have lost a great friend of mine(which was almost like a part of myself..)Then don’t you feel om-shanti Om’s “jag soona-soona” or train’s…..“Jindagi ne jindagi bhar gam diye”? and won’t it would be okay to say that,” now the life has no longer remain for you the same”……………?
……………………………… No no no no! (After all this is yangistaan meri jaan!) So think for a while…That what if the very next day or that day itself you find someone more beautiful/smart or more loving, caring then her or him. And what if she/he ( your new friend) is almost similar to your previous love (yes carrying the same smile…Talking in the similar style…and appear to you as a twince of her/him….after all it’s said their exists 7 clones of every one of us)……yes then can’t it be possible to say that you still can win the battle of love even after losing it for a while? (Bolo…bolo?).So ultimate crux is that whenever you find yourself into similar condition have confidence in yourself & just simply trust the god (as who knows when your life get filled up with happiness one more time).
Now coming to those who cheated them or just breaked up their friendship by just getting irritated up by asking themselves on &on that how can it be possible that I can love someone who is one of my friend (or as he/she not stand even a little bit in the front of me)…So all such people just think for a while what if in the near future you also met with this kind of situation for a while?(& your then love says to you that don’t dare to speak those words again)…..But now may be some of you will say that we have done all this just for the wellbeing of our friend….so that they must stop thinking about us…forget us..As all this can’t be possible…Because we are already in love or we don’t find him/her as our ideal match).So for such people I think their should be no problem at all… in fact they should just speak up frankly that what’s the exact matter to their friend (rather than breaking up their friendship forever). And one more think for such peoples if still your eyes of don’t get opened up then try to recall the time one he or she had helped you or when two of you have laughed together……. And then think again for a while that is it okay to break up the friendship for the life time?
Ting Ting…Got it or not?
SO I just end up by saying that……”everyone of us must understand it that it’s not only the love which is eternal…yes friendship too can stand as a contender…”
So the next time if you ever feel yourself into hell sort of situation or just going to break up your friendship for all this…then just wait & think for whatever I said……..
So Lets Hope that you too feel this ultimate change in Urself very soon……..
Posted By-PRABHJOT SINGH
Now tell what are your views…have you ever fallen in love? Or have you ever find yourself into a similar situation? Or any of your true love story (not like love story 2050…which almost got flopped)?
If yes then don’t hesitate just express your views or experience…because after all it’s you who matters to us.